Author Archives: Jay Butchko
The ‘Tell-All’ Of Prenuptial Agreements (And Why They Are Necessary)
With wedding season around the corner, the topic of prenuptial agreements can often inevitably come up one way or another, especially for those individuals and/or couples who want to ensure that they are protected as they enter this next exciting time in their lives. Yet while prenuptial agreements may have a reputation for being… Read More »
Taking Care Of Yourself During Divorce
Even when the process is conflict-free, divorce can still be emotionally draining. It can be easy to feel like there is no end in sight, regardless of how long it takes to finalize. However, it will be easier to navigate divorce – and everything that comes with it – if you work with the… Read More »
Approaching Prenuptial Agreements In Terms Of Family Legacy
In a nutshell, a prenuptial agreement is a legal document that lays out how certain assets will be handled after marriage and/or in the event of divorce. When most people think of prenuptial agreements, they think of agreements entered into by rich Hollywood stars or big business owners prior to marriage in order to… Read More »
Breastfeeding & Child Custody
One child custody issue in particular has gained national headlines this month: The story involves the issue of custody affecting such parental choices as breastfeeding. Specifically, one judge ordered a mother who had been breastfeeding her daughter for seven months – since the child’s birth – to make every effort to place the child… Read More »
Closely Examining ‘Parental Alienation’ In Custody Cases
Allegations of parental alienation are typically seen in acrimonious child custody cases, and they are no small matter. Courts treat these allegations very seriously, and in some cases, it can result in the parent accused of such conduct to lose custody and/or visitation rights. In a number of these cases, courts must be careful… Read More »
Moving Out Of The Family Home Prior To Divorce: Pros & Cons
Distribution of assets in divorce is a top concern for individuals who are both contemplating and already going through divorce. For most couples, their primary residence is their most valuable asset. For those also concerned about child custody, parenting schedules, and visitation, how a living situation is arranged prior to the divorce and any… Read More »
What Is An Attorney For Children In Family Law Cases?
In family law, child custody is determined based on what state law dictates is in the best interest of the child, which involves a number of specific factors that the court weighs. Some of these cases can, in some circumstances, involve what’s known as an Attorney for Children (AFC), which is a court appointed… Read More »
Fault, Bias, & Decision Making In Divorce
According to recent surveys, the most common reason that couples divorce is due to “unreasonable behavior,” but what does this mean, exactly? The definition varies based upon the individual and the circumstances, but the behaviors most frequently associated with the phrase include a lack of emotional support, secretive, financial debt, and drug, alcohol, or… Read More »
Getting Divorced With Children In New York
As divorce attorneys here in New York who assist clients with child custody, support, distribution of assets, spousal support, and more, we frequently receive questions concerning how divorce is affected or different when children are involved. While it is always possible for a couple to come to an amicable, uncontested agreement concerning issues like… Read More »
When One Parent Wants To Move Out Of State
As divorce attorneys who frequently assist clients with child custody here in New York, we regularly receive concerns from parents who have just found out that their ex has decided to move out of state. As a result, they are understandably panicked. Below, we discuss the different circumstances that can arise in these situations… Read More »